Thursday, June 28, 2012

the newest cocktail dresses in 2012


Of all the different kinds of dresses, cocktail dress is my favorite style one.Its versatile, elegant charm and extravagant giving me the impression of depth.

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Now, cocktail dresses are available in a variety of shapes, beautiful fabrics, with silk, satin, chiffon and layers or even just the most popular choice. Each season brings its share of surprises with new additions. So how to find your own cocktail dress is essential for you to distinguish it from other participants of a party. Now I will recommend you some tips to choose the right evening cocktail dresses:

First, consider matching wraps that cover your arms, wrap a beautiful, colorful shawl or shrug will add elegance. Second, a formal appeal and glamorous, select pants in a fit that flatters your body type, give importance to the fabric, fit and cut. If you feel more comfortable in pants, cocktail pantsuit choose. Match with a denim jacket and pants tailored perfectly identified. Mix with a sequined camisole.

Second, there are also some tips that will hide your body disadvantage if attention is paid to design cocktail dress. For example, if you are tall and round and dark colors can make you look thinner. Another plus, if you have a leading figure, with a flattering neckline to bust like the V-neck. If your body lacks natural curves, you can be helped with bright colors and bold patterns that provide an ultimate feminine presence. In conclusion, selecting the right cocktail dress appropriate to your body you can achieve the desired effect.
Today fabrics, taffeta and satin are important the main Bridal dresses 2012.

Moreover, the wedding style is long and ankle, the first parts of the dress with a straight cut, after the sites are supported with another piece to clean the floor of the skirt when the bride to walk in church when the red carpet, washing the floor of the skirt as slowly and on the mat, so that the bride angelic posture.

Compared to any other party dresses,cocktail dress, whether wise or decadent, merges with more sex appeal party, which won more fancy ladies.

11 Tips For Getting Your Wedding Dress Custom Made

Style, fit, and price can mean it's more cost-effective for you to have your coloured wedding dresses custom made. Here are some tips to remember if you decide to go this way...

    Ask friends and family for referrals. Referrals are the best way to find your dressmaker,

    Use friends and family if they have the skills to make dresses.

    Remember to make sure you budget for potential changes of mind, ill fitting fabric, alterations

    You may need help from a designer before finding a dressmaker to finalise pattern

    Do a thorough background check on your dressmaker, review their portfolio to make sure they can do what they say

    Make sure you feel comfortable with who you pick

    Be prepared to know every detail of your ideal dress

    Fabric choice is huge, style may not work with your choice of fabric, having a knowledgable and skillful dressmaker will be priceless.

    Allow 6 months from design to completion

    Be prepared for the usual 3 fittings

    Be prepared for some stress at the uncertainty of going custom made.

2012 New Style Dresses are hotter than ever and new styles are being added daily! Look beautiful in sexy prom dresses by the best designers. 2012  New Style Dresses will bring you the fresh and fantastic experience. They are at high quality and made of top grade fabric and you can choose your own size, color and fabric as your wish.  2012 New Styles Dresses ,including top seller dress. modest and latest wedding dresses, fashion evening dresses, charming bridesmaid dresses, sexy cocktail dresses and quinceanera dresses from coming 2012 in TOPONS。Love is never cease. This life I want to be your bride, cherish you, comfort you, respect you, protect you.

5 Jewelry Gift Ideas For Your Bridesmaids


When a couple gets married they will have people asking them what want for gifts, but a wedding (buy backless wedding dresses ) isn't only about what the two of them will receive. The bride-to-be will be choosing a gift for her bridesmaids to receive.

Jewelry is always an excellent choice for this special gift. To make it a really special gift, the bride can choose handmade jewelry designs, handcrafted artisan jewelry, or custom handcraft jewelry to give her bridesmaids a unique and memorable gift to thank them for being a part of the wedding party.

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Here are 5 jewelry gift ideas for bridesmaids:

Bracelets-Choosing custom handcraft jewelry will assure that the bracelets are unique and make the bridesmaids feel special. You can get a set of bracelets for each bridesmaids in matching colors, that match the dresses, or a unique bracelet for each one.

Necklaces-A necklace that has a memorable charm that represents friendship is a good choice for a necklace. A bride can also give each bridesmaid handcrafted artisan jewelry when choosing a necklace as a bridesmaid's gift. A classic design will match most styles. Casual wear jewelery will be worn more often than formal jewelry.

Earrings-When buying earrings for bridesmaids, a bride will need to find out if the bridesmaids hypoallergenic earrings before buying the gifts. Post or short dangling earrings will go with most outfits. Long dangling ones may not.

Jewelry sets-A bride should know her bridemaids' style before buying a jewelry set. To make the set extra special and meaningful, a bride can choose handmade designs when picking out jewelry for the gifts for the bridesmaids. The set can be any or all of the following: Earrings, necklace, or bracelet.

Charm bracelet-This is a great gift because there can be matching charms for all the bridesmaids and charms that are unique for each bridesmaid. In a addition, the bride may want to choose a charm that represents the unique relationship she has with each individual bridesmaid.

Traditionally the bride would give the gifts to the bridesmaids at the rehearsal dinner. The gifts can also be presented more privately when the bride and bridesmaids are alone at a luncheon or getting ready for the ceremony. Whenever it is given, it is important the bride communicates her appreciation.

When a bride takes time to choose handmade jewelry designs, it will show her bridesmaids how special they are. Others will see it too when they see the bridesmaids wearing something special like handcrafted artisan jewelry.

4 factors to consider while picking bridesmaid dress


Bridesmaid dresses have always carried the label of being hideous with many ruffles and pleats. But thanks to the contemporary bridal industry; fortunately the dresses no longer carries dresses like those. In fact the bridesmaid dresses of this day are lovely numbers which can even be worn in other formal occasions. The most important thing that you must consider while choosing the dresses is the comfort. You cannot force your entourage wear something they don't like just because it is our wedding.

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While you are planning incorporate everything that has to do with the wedding gown. Think and decide what you want. Have a clear understanding of your budget and the design that you would like to wear like how traditional you want it to be. It is extremely important to make sure that you are comfortable wearing the bridal gown. It is your wedding day, and you don't want to feel choked but to dance and laugh in full spirit. Plan for your bridal gown depending upon the type of your wedding. If it is a beach wedding, you can go for a cocktail length gown.
Following are certain tips that you need to keep in mind while picking a bridesmaid dress.

Comfort level

The bridesmaid dress that you select should be comfortable enough for the bridesmaids. So it is better to go with what will suit the body type of the bridesmaid instead of what the bride will like. If the bridesmaids are not comfortable with the dress, the discomfort may be shown on their face during the ceremony. So it is important to think from the angle of the bridesmaid while you are shopping. Thus you can make sure that your right hand women on the big day would be happy and comfortable.

Dress pattern

The dress pattern would depend on the kind of wedding that you are having. For church wedding, a full flowing gown in simple design would be the best choice. If it is beach wedding, go for a short summery dress. The dress of the bridesmaid should be according to the theme if it is a theme based wedding. However the rule of thumb here is that whatever be the place of the wedding, the bridesmaid dress should be simple.

Color of the dress

One you decide upon the style, pattern, fabric and cut, make sure that the color of the dress would complement the skin tone and hair color of the bridesmaid. Never pick a color in which the bridesmaid would look ridiculous. For a girl with fair skin tone, any color would be best. However avoid colors which are too bright.

Tuesday, June 26, 2012

Agyness Deyn and Giovanni Ribisi’s Surprise Elopement


Here’s one no one saw coming: After onlookers spotted Brit supermodel Agyness Deyn and her actor boyfriend Giovanni Ribisi (wait, they were dating?) suspiciously kissing while waiting in line at the Los Angeles County Registrar’s Office, the two finally confirmed their elopement Thursday afternoon.

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“Agyness Deyn and Giovanni Ribisi quietly married in Los Angeles over the weekend,” Ribisi’s rep told UsWeekly.

Deyn, 29, best known for taking the fashion industry by storm with her signature pixie cut and edgy model-off-duty style, had been dating the 37-year-old Avatar and Lost In Translation actor for just several months before the two decided to make it official.

Following Marc Zuckerberg and Priscilla Chan, and Jessa and Thomas on HBO’s Girls,  Agyness and Giovanni’s nuptials mark the third major surprise wedding we’ve seen recently.

Congrats to the newlyweds!

Style Stalker: Joyce and Alex


Joyce and Alex’s California day-of style is so fresh! I love how the bridesmaid dresses go so well with the multicolored bouquets.

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the gown Joyce wore an ivory taffeta a-line gown by Mori Lee. She accessorized the simple silhouette with a pair of statement chandelier earrings made by Nadri.

the bridesmaid dresses For her friends, Joyce chose fluttery chiffon dresses by Bill Levkoff. The maid of honor added a matching coral flower from Anthropologie to her updo. Petite multicolored posies completed the bright bridesmaid looks.

Monday, June 25, 2012

Honeymoon Budget: 25 Ways to Honeymoon for Less


The secrets to getting the most bang for your honeymoon buck are to shop around and plan ahead. Keep in mind that you can avoid paying full price about 99% of the time -- even some early-booking discounts apply to peak times. Here are 25 money-saving tips to help you plan the romantic vacation of your discount dreams.
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1. Set Your Priorities
First decide what your goals are for the trip and exactly what you can and can't live without. Let's say you have $1,000 for the honeymoon. If pampering is first on your list, book a long weekend in the suite of a nearby spa resort. If getting away from it all is most important, use that same amount of money to take a week-long camping trip complete with gourmet eats and treats.

2. Work With A Travel Agent
For one-stop, stress-free trip planning, a travel agent can't be beat. They can save you money with air/hotel or fly/drive/hotel packages (thanks to their high business volume), they have the skinny on last-minute or ongoing sales, and can offer the wisdom gained from years of travel experience. For savings at sea, call an agency that specializes in booking cruises. And be sure to let the travel agent know your priorities so he knows exactly what to cut and keep from your itinerary.


3. Consider A Honeymoon Registry
Here's how it works: Some travel agencies and tour operators offer a registry service by which they collect, track, and apply contributions from your wedding guests toward your honeymoon expenses. Some services, such as www.honeyluna.com, even allow guests to "sponsor" specific activities such as a sunset cruise, scuba trip, spa treatment, or meal at a romantic restaurant.

4. Choose An Off-Season Locale
Assuming your departure date is fixed (i.e., you're taking a honeymoon immediately after your wedding), choose a destination or cruise itinerary whose off- or shoulder-season (the period right before and after high season) coincides with your travel dates for drastic price breaks and less crowds.
Best of all: Off-season is not synonymous with bad weather. For example, many islands in the Caribbean have ideal temperatures year-round, but rates skyrocket from January to April due to high demand from winter-weary East Coast travelers. In other locales, off-season means searing heat or bitter cold, and many hotels and activities may shut down completely until more hospitable weather returns.


5. Choose Cheaper Locales
Many variables can make a destination a dynamite deal, including a weak local currency (Mexico and Canada, for instance) or heavy tourist traffic (Jamaica and Puerto Rico). Other surprises such as weather disasters (tsunamis in the Pacific, hurricane damage in the Caribbean, earthquakes in Turkey) cannot be planned in advance but have the same cost-cutting effect.

6. Stay Close To Home
In general, the shorter the flight, the cheaper the airfare. This is one reason why West Coasters head south to Mexico and East Coasters flock to the Caribbean. Another idea: Save the airfare and use the extra money to upgrade to a nicer hotel and room at a resort within driving distance.


7. Book Early
This guarantees that all the inexpensive rooms won't be sold out. On cruises, which announce their itineraries 10 to 14 months in advance, it also means savings of up to 55%. On the flip side, if a ship is under booked, you may snag a last-minute deal up to eight weeks before sailing (although you may have a limited choice of cabins).

8. Shop The Sales
According to Consumer Reports Travel Letter, the best (read: cheapest) times to buy airline tickets are October through December and January through March. When booking, think like a vacationer and stay over at least one Saturday night: Airfares tend to take a dive when business travel is low, i.e., over the weekend.

9. Read The Paper
Not only should you scan for travel deals for flights originating in your hometown -- especially popular in a major airline's hub city -- but swoop in on the fine print. Too many disclaimers spell trouble. Look for ads that deal with major airlines (not charter flights) and familiar hotel chains. Comparison shop and trust your gut.

10. Consider Alternative Airports
As in, sacrifice convenience for savings: Try flying in to or out of a smaller or farther airport at one or both ends of your trip to reduce your airfare. For example, Big Apple honeymooners may save money by flying into Long Island's Islip Airport instead of New York's La Guardia. (Call your hotel to make sure the round-trip cost of a taxi or car service from the farther airport won't wipe out your savings!)

11. Consider Alternate Modes of Travel
Instead of flying a major airline, check out no-frills, low-fare carriers or consider the scenic window views of a train, bus, or car. If driving, break up the longer travel time -- and enhance the journey -- by planning some sightseeing pit stops along the way.

12. Cash In Your Frequent Flier Miles
That credit card you've been abusing to pay for your wedding is now ready to be milked for airline tickets, hotel rooms, car rentals, and upgrades. (In fact, seat upgrades have a better "exchange rate" than ticket purchases and are invaluable splurges on marathon flights.) Ask about partnerships, allow plenty of time for membership rewards or points to be transferred, and remember that blackout dates may curtail your plans.

13. Purchase An Air Pass
Many foreign airlines (including those that service Europe, Southeast Asia, South America, Australia, and the South Pacific) sell tickets that allow you to city- or country-hop within a specific region within a limited time frame for far less than had you arranged each leg of the trip separately.

14. Book Online
Some hotels and airlines offer Internet-booking discounts or bonuses such as frequent flyer miles. For a roundup of deals, visit www.webflyer.com. Not picky about where you stay? Go to www.priceline.com and name your price. Each bid is free but remember these two caveats: You can specify the city, area of the city, dates, and level of quality (one to four stars) you desire, but you can not request a specific hotel. Also, if Priceline finds accommodations at your stated offer price, you must accept the reservation. (As in, your credit card will instantly and automatically be charged the full amount for your stay.)

15. Consider An All-Inclusive Hotel, Cruise, or Tour
The best part about all-inclusives? There are no surprises and no limits: You can live like a king and queen for one flat fee. You can even get married at no cost with a minimum-night stay at Sandals, SuperClubs, Swept Away, and Couples resorts. Most all-inclusive rates include room, all meals, drinks, activities, entertainment, tips, taxes, and airport transfers (adventure tours also include guides and equipment). Knot Note: Packages vary. Club Med, for example, doesn't include alcoholic drinks. Ask lots of questions and make sure most of what's included appeals to you (otherwise, why spend the money?).

16. Consider A Bed-And-Breakfast
True, some lack privacy, but not all. Most are packed with romantic nooks and luxe amenities. Prices are usually favorable -- especially during the week -- and breakfast is obviously included. Knot Note: Kids and pets are allowed -- even encouraged! -- at some.


17. Do Your Own Cooking
Book a condo or villa with cooking facilities, where you can whip up your own meals for two whenever you get the munchies. Be sure to pack candles and your favorite tunes for romantic ambience.

18. Call A Hotel Broker
These companies sell rooms that hotels need to fill or they buy blocks of rooms and pass the savings on to you (and may have rooms at hotels claiming to be sold out). Two good ones to try are www.quikbook.com and

19. Call A Hotel Directly
Reservationists at a hotel's 800 number, especially at large chains, are not always familiar with the latest promotions and packages offered at a specific location. Call the front desk of the hotel you're interested in directly to get the scoop on sales, find out which rooms are best, and get an accurate idea of how much it will cost to get to the hotel from the airport.

20. Ask About Packages
Not only do you get lots of extras when you sign up for a package (which may have a romance, honeymoon, spa, or sport theme), but package rates may include tax, tips, and airport transfers, which can save you big money over the regular room-only rates -- even with all the perks! Check honeymoon articles on The Knot for romance package details at featured hotels.

21. Sleep Cheap, Live Large
Book the cheapest room you can in the swankiest hotel you can afford. Choosing a room that faces the garden or pool instead of the ocean is no big deal if you plan to be on the beach or out of your room enjoying posh amenities most of the time anyway. Light sleepers should choose a garden view -- pool parties or dance bands may keep you up. Save even more if you're willing to stay a block or two from the beach.

22. Read The Fine Print
Compare rates based on what's included. For example, tax alone can add up to 21%! Optional inclusions such as tax, tips, airport transfers, breakfast, and afternoon tea or wine and cheese in the evening can save you a bundle.

23. Don't Be Shy
Don't accept the first room rate quoted (especially during low season). Inquire about weekend rates (common at city hotels), extended stay discounts, and seasonal promotions. Ask: Is this absolutely the lowest rate you can offer me? What would I need to do to get a better rate?

24. Pull Your Resources
Get intimate with the benefits of all your credit cards, dining cards, and club memberships. For example, your auto insurance or credit card may already cover Collision Damage and Liability on car rentals. You may also be covered for other travel snafus -- or discover optional coverage you'll need to activate before you leave, such as travel insurance, which can protect your trip deposits and reimburse you for pricey medical expenses if something happens on your trip. It's a relatively small price to pay for peace of mind.

25. Brag!
When you're inquiring about a rate or making a reservation, make sure the person knows it's for your honeymoon. At the very least, you may get a better table or free flutes of champagne. At best -- especially during the off-season -- you may get a room upgrade!
Is your budget still coming up short? Don't sweat -- book a nice hotel room for your wedding night and start saving for a belated honeymoon blowout on your first anniversary. Bon voyage!

Honeymoon Beauty: What to Pack


You've spent months pampering yourself with beauty treatments to ensure you'd be in tip-top shape for your wedding. Now that it's time for your honeymoon, how do you plan to maintain your beautiful bridal() blush? For starters, pack(pink prom dress) wisely -- and then follow these pointers to add to that honeymoon glow.

By the Beach
If you're headed for the beach or another exotic hot spot, pack your entire collection of suncare protection products, including after-sun items, lip balm, and clarifying shampoo. Don't bother bringing foundation, though, since you'll have your own relaxed glow from the sun. Instead, pack blush, lip gloss, lipstick and perhaps a shimmer product for nights on the town. If the atmosphere is especially relaxed, you can skip eye makeup altogether.

Cool Weather Cues
If it's a cold-weather mountain or ski trip you're headed for, stuff your bag with moisturizing sunblock and lip balms, as well as rich creams for your face. If your face becomes extremely dry while you're skiing, you can apply a thin coat of lip balm over the entire surface. Cold air can also dry out your locks, so stash a deep conditioner in your bag to apply and leave in overnight. As for makeup, keep it mountain-side minimal with pale colors and a touch of gloss on the lips. And don't forget to apply that sunblock around your eyes -- goggle marks are anything but glamorous.
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Urban Outlook
Honeymooning in London, Paris or another big city? Then you'll want to pack a full complement of cosmetics. Which means lipsticks, liners, foundation, powder, concealer, mascara, and eye shadow. Now's your chance to choose more cosmopolitan colors like reds, plums, and deep browns. You'll still need to layer sunblock under your foundation if you're going to spend time touring outdoors. Hats and scarves make glorious big-city hair accessories, and if you'll be doing more sightseeing than cafe cruising, toss an energizing foot cream into your sack as well -- you're going to need it.
No matter what your destination, take along sample packets of skin care products you may not use at home -- things like deep-conditioning hair treatments and hydrating facial masks -- since you may have more time and energy to pamper myself in a hotel room. Plus, it's a fun activity for you and your hubby: Don your plush hotel robes, order up some room service, and surrender to dual massages -- what better way to launch yourselves into your new life together?

Sunday, June 24, 2012

Mexico: Los Cabos | Water Sports, Luxe Retreats & Sultry Sands

Fun in the surf and sun is the life of Los Cabos, an area that stretches between the town of Cabo San Lucas to the west and San Jose del Cabo to the east along the southernmost coast of Baja California, Mexico. In between lies the "Corridor," a string of cozy hotels, five championship golf courses, winding horse trails, and white-sand beaches (note: a sneaky undertow renders many of them too rough for swimming).

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Whether you're catching one or communing with hundreds, the more than 800 species of fish that ply the waters off Los Cabos, where each year sport fishers reel in thousands of marlin and sailfish (to photograph and release, or have mounted, frozen, or smoked), are the main attraction. Underwater sightseers will love Playa Bahia Chileno, an underwater preserve; Bahia Santa Maria, a picturesque cove surrounded by cliffs; Gordo Banks; El Arco, called "Land's End," where sea lions dart about; and Cabo Pulmo. Experienced divers can brave The Blowhole for a close encounter with a whale shark or hammerhead.
before you go: need-to-know info
Entry requirements: Passport
Language: Spanish
Currency: Peso
Flight time: 8 hrs from NYC, 2.5 hrs from LA, 5.5 hrs from Chicago, 6.5 hrs from Dallas
Hotel tax and service charge: 10%-12%; service charge varies
Tipping: 10%-15% if not included for waiters, $2 (peso equivalent) per bag for bellhops, $1 per night for maids, 5-10 pesos for taxi drivers if they help with your bags
Getting around: Bus, car, taxi
More info: Call (800) VISITCABO
Why We'd Go: Five Features You'll Never Forget

San Jose Del Cabo: The quieter of the two main towns, San Jose is an old Mexican village built around the Colonial-style church Iglesia San Jose and a charming town square still filled with vendors. Just around the corner, the lush and serene 125-acre Estero de San Jose, a freshwater estuary, hosts more than 200 bird species. Visit the nearby Regional Museum to glimpse the area's past.
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Cabo San Lucas: Once the anchorage of choice for celebrities seeking a quiet getaway, this lively town is now the mecca for those who seek a fishing charter (most Corridor hotels also have their own fleet of boats), whale-watching excursion (December to April), glass-bottom boat ride, or snorkel or dive trip. Nightlife and shopping are big draws. Be forewarned that cruise ships anchor here, bringing crowds of passengers and hawkers.
Outdoor sport: Fins don't float your boat? Take a spin on a parasail or try your hand at windsurfing (it's harder than it looks). Horseback riding is a lazy way to see the sites on land; hoof it on foot in the pine, oak, and pinion woodlands of the Sierra de la Laguna, then pick a bouquet of wildflowers in the valley below.
Shopping ops: In San Jose del Cabo, Boulevard Mijares is lined with craft and artisan shops overlooking a block-long splashing fountain. Don't miss Copal for carved animals crafted in Oaxaca and masks from Guerrero. Venture down side streets for stores such as ADD, which features beautiful hand-painted dishes from Guanajuato and carved-wood furniture from Michoacan. In Los Cabos, browsing is best done near the marina, in Plaza Las Glorias or Plaza Bonita. Visit Cuca's Blanket Factory to design your own blanket to snuggle up in the next day.
Rowdy nightlife: Watch the sun set from Land's End (south of Cabo San Lucas), at the clifftop Whale Watcher Bar at Hotel Finisterra, then head into town to dance and drink.
Pucker Up: Best Place To Smooch

Where else but Playa de Amor (Lover's Beach, accessible only by water taxi), near the rocky and hauntingly beautiful El Arco (the arch) in Cabo San Lucas, where opposites -- the serene Sea of Cortes and the crashing surf of the Pacific -- attract in a dramatically romantic way.
When To Go: Los Cabos At Its Best

Best weather: October through May
Best prices: June through October; exact dates vary by hotel
Festival highlights: Semana Santa, which begins in March or April, leads up to Easter and is celebrated with parades and passion plays; Cinco de Mayo (May 5) commemorates the defeat of the French in 1862; Saint John the Baptist Day (June 24) is marked by "blessing" anyone within splashing distance with water; Mexico's independence is celebrated in mid-September with fireworks and parties; and Christmas festivities begin in mid-December. For details, check out the Los Cabos Tourism Board website


For more information about Mexico, contact the Mexico tourist board, (800) 44-MEXICO.

Mexico: Choosing Your Spot in the Sun


Mexico is not just sun-soaked beaches, frothy margaritas, and plump pinatas. From ancient Aztec, Maya, and Indian ruins to today's twinkling cliffside discos, Mexico(backless wedding dresses) offers a rich cultural heritage and modern mix of indulgences. Take our overview tour to decide what city -- or state or region! -- inspires your perfect honeymoon.

mexicoBaja California
Biggest Draws: Whale watching, water sports
Location: A peninsula that dangles off California west of Mexico's mainland, Baja starts with notorious border towns such as Tijuana and ends at Los Cabos, adored by honeymooners for its snorkeling, golf, and surf-kissed beaches of Costa Azul, Playa Palmilla, and Playa Solmar. The region blossoms as you move south down the dual-coasted strip of land with sleepy fishing villages; whale-watching ops off the Pacific Coast; the high-sierra vistas of Parque Nacional San Pedro Martir; and excellent windsurfing off the East Cape.

Sonora
Biggest Draws: Cowboy culture, carne asada (grilled meat)
Location: Northwestern Mexico; borders Arizona
Moving east across the Sea of Cortes, you'll find Sonora, a sonorous name for Mexico's northernmost state. Cowboys and rancheras (country ballads) are part of its charm, as are coastal towns such as Bahia Kino, red mountain-edged Guaymas, and beautiful San Carlos, where you can swim, snorkel, and kayak with resident dolphins, pelicans, and sea lions. Head east inland to discover Alamos, one of the country's best-preserved colonial enclaves (the whole town is designated a national monument!), hidden in the foothills of the Sierra Madre, three mountain ranges that border Mexico's central plateau.

Copper Canyon
Biggest Draws: Canyon vistas
Location: South of Sonora on the west coast
The awesome Copper Canyon is actually four gorges that combine to form a one-mile-deep and one-mile-wide hole four times the size of the Grand Canyon. The best way to see it is via the Chihuahua al Pacifico railroad on its Los Mochis-Chihuahua City run. It's a 15-hour ride, so you should hop off and on at whim. Along the way, don't miss Divisadero, the starting point for horseback trips or hikes down to the village of Bacajipare, canyon home of the isolated Tarahumara Indians. Also pretty: the 806-foot-high Basaseachic Falls outside of Creel.

Mexican Riviera
Biggest Draws: Sunny sands, nightlife
Location: West coast from Mazatlan to Acapulco
Also called the Gold Coast, this prime sunset-watching stretch of stunning jungle-rimmed coastline along the Pacific includes Mazatlan, Puerto Vallarta (made famous by the Tennessee Williams play and movie, The Night of the Iguana, Manzanillo (the setting for Bo Derek and Dudley Moore's 10, Ixtapa/Zihuatanejo (the first a glitzy hotel row, the second a fishing village snared in the spotlight), and Acapulco, nightlife central. The entire stretch of coast is an adult Romper Room, where water sports, golf, shopping, surfing, and that shimmering sand compete for your attention. (That is, after you've slept off the disco-fueled hangover.) Go to mellow Mazatlan or Manzanillo for fewer tourist sites, plus cheaper beds and bites.

Guadalajara
Biggest Draws: Mariachis, ceramics
Location: Inland midway down the west coast
Second only in population to Mexico City, Guadalajara is a bustling city, six million residents strong, stretching across the cacti-dotted plateau of the Sierra Madre. Sure, there are the un-honeymoon crowds of a big city here, but there is also an intriguing dose of colonial charm and history (the Mexican hat dance, mariachis, and questionable "sport" of rodeo were all invented here). Guadalajara's 30-block historic center is filled with shady plazas, marble fountains, gaily dressed troubadours, and stunning 16th-century landmarks. Don't miss nearby Tequila (the source of Mexico's national elixir), or Tlaquepaque and Tonala, quaint towns where hundreds of local artisans sell some of the country's finest ceramics and glassware.

The Heartland
Biggest Draws: Colonial cities, silver
Location: Mid-Mexico 
The heart of Mexico is filled with rolling farmland, pristine pockets of local culture, and the architectural charm of the Silver Cities: Guanajuato, a mountain town with colorful houses and maze-like cobblestone alleys, and San Miguel de Allende, a cultural hub with historic inns and churches. Not only does this area have a lot of heart, it lays claim to a good bit of history, too: The Mexican constitution was signed in Queretaro, a city known for its opals and proud, mansion-filled Plaza de la Independencia. Morelia, capital of the state of Michoacan, is the place for music festivals and candy lovers - don't miss the sweets market!

Mexico City
Biggest Draw: Aztec history
Location: Just south of Mexico's "Heartland"
Although Mexico City is not considered honeymoon heaven, it has the distinction of being the oldest and highest city in North America. The Plaza de la Constitucion, called the Zocalo, at the city's heaving heart, was once the capital of the Aztec empire. Here you'll find the 16th-century Catedral Metropolitana, Latin America's oldest and largest cathedral, and Templo Mayor, the Aztec temple of human sacrifice.
Daytrip to Teotihuacan, a must-see pyramid complex Aztecs believed to be the birthplace of the gods; the mystical town of Tepoztlan; Xochimilco, famous for its floating gardens; and Puebla, where you can visit beguiling colonial churches (don't miss the entirely gilded Rosary Chapel at the Iglesia de Santo Domingo), buy Talavera pottery, and indulge in fresh camote, a candy made from sweet potato and fruit, along the Calle de los Dulces (Sweets Street). Hike it off on the banks of the ominous 17,887-foot-high volcano Popocatepetl, which looms over the valley and Mexico City.

Veracruz
Biggest Draws: Seafood, cafe society
Location: East central Mexico
The coffee bean fields blanketing the tropical highlands near the city of Jalapa, home of the wily jalapeno chile, no doubt fuel the buzz of this state on the eastern coast. Foodies flock to Veracruz City, the birthplace of the dreamy dish huachinango a la veracruzana (red snapper covered in tomatoes, onions, olives, and herbs). After dinner, take an evening stroll and be serenaded by street entertainers - the song "La Bamba" was written here, after all! Visit the nearby Pyramid of the Niches at El Tajin for a haunting reminder of the Indian civilization that once ruled the coast.

Oaxaca
Biggest Draws: Surfing, architecture
Location: Southwestern coast of Mexico
This state just south of the Gold Coast is loved for its 300 miles of coastline -- Zicatela is one of the world's top surf spots thanks to its daily pummeling by the "Mexican Pipeline" - but the main attractions are the vibrant Baroque buildings from the Spanish conquest in Oaxaca City; seven types of mole (a spicy sauce made with chocolate); mezcal (an alcoholic drink made from cactus); and the spirited festivities for Dia de los Muertos (Day of the Dead/All Souls' Day), which run from October 31 to November 2. Off the beaten path, don't miss the city ruins of the mountaintop Monte Alban, which was a thriving city 2,500 years ago.

Chipas
Biggest Draws: Maya ruins, Mother Nature
Location: Southern Mexico, just west of Yucatan
Less well known than its neighboring state of Tabasco, home of the ubiquitous sauce, Chiapas offers natural wonders and breath-stealing Maya ruins. The lovely and inexpensive colonial town of San Cristobal de las Casas makes an excellent home base for daytrips to the spectacular Caves of San Cristobal and the village of San Juan Chamula, but you'll have to rent a car for other worthy excursions. Some highlights include the 58 multihued Lagunas de Montebello (Lakes of the Beautiful Mountain); Sumidero Canyon, a 4,000-foot-deep gash cut by the Grijalva River; and ancient cities such as jungle-clad Yaxchilan and must-see Palenque, a stunner that emerges out of the rain forest with stoic majesty.

Yucatan Peninsula
Biggest Draws: Archeological ruins, underwater sights
Location: Southeast tip of Mexico
The southeastern tip of Mexico is renowned for the country's best beaches and a bevy of archaeological ruins, including the seaside city of Tulum, the temple pyramids at Chichen Itza, elegant Uxmal, and eerily silent Coba and Cenote Xkeken, a swimmable sinkhole. When you're saturated with deserted cities, refuel in the spunky city of Merida or indulge your senses beside and beneath the crystal blue waters of the Caribbean Sea. Cancun was carved out of the jungle specifically for your merrymaking, and the mellow islands of Cozumel -- near the world's second longest barrier reef -- and Isla Mujeres beckon just offshore.

Friday, June 22, 2012

Europe: Greece - Island Overview


If you learn just one Greek word, it should be "Opa!" Shouted with enthusiasm, it means "Bravo -- Wonderful -- Hooray!" and is the perfect way to describe a Greek island honeymoon, with its heady mixture of romantic vistas, savory local foods and wines, and water, water everywhere. Whether you choose one island or several -- peaceful or party central -- the combinations of sunny splendor are blissfully endless. (In addition, two island groups, the Dodecanese and Northern Aegean Islands, are tantalizingly close to Turkey -- don't miss the opportunity to explore that exotic land, as well.)

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This treasure trove of islands is blessed by Aphrodite. By day, laze away on a sunny coast or explore medieval villages -- and make it a point to take a siesta with the locals after lunch (a café stop for sweet Greek coffee and baklava will bring you back to life). At night, linger over dinner, traditionally an all-evening affair that begins with mezedes (hors d'oeuvres) at 7 or 8 p.m., then stroll the moonlit streets, toast Greek music with ouzo (the national drink, an anise-flavored liqueur best diluted with water), and dance until dawn.

All island trips begin with a flight to Athens, on Greece's mainland. Stay a few days if you like, then start your island odyssey by plane (fly to an island with an airport - not all have one - then fan out by ferryboat) or boat (from Piraeus, a port town seven miles outside of Athens). If you want to sample many islands with minimum hassle -- or you're short on time -- consider a cruise. You unpack once, enjoy luxe amenities en route, and glimpse a number of islands without coordinating ferry schedules. Sign up for shore excursions to further maximize your time. If you prefer a more intimate vessel, smaller ships and private yacht charters are available from Athens.
Knot Note: Many seasonal businesses (including hotels) are closed from November to March. Also, all place names below are followed by their Greek names, if applicable.

In A Word: Sunshine
A visit to the Greek isles is all about sunlight -- the way it sparkles off the Mediterranean, transforms your pale skin to bronze, turns up the contrast between whitewashed homes and deep blue sky, and slowly slips over the edge of the earth at day's end. If you can't wait to get out of that wedding dress and into a bikini, these islands are the place to go.

Crete
Birthplace of the artist El Greco, Greece's largest island marks the boundary between Europe and Africa. Blessed by Mother Nature, Crete delights the senses with its fertile valleys, mountain peaks, sacred caves, and fresh local goat cheese, basil, figs, and wine. This is a great place to explore (by car) and relax for a week if you're not interested in island hopping. From Athens, consider flying into the seaside town of Chania (Hania) -- where the island's 700 years of Venetian and Turkish rule are charmingly evident -- and out of the bustling city of Iraklion (Iraklio), a good home base for many sidetrips, including one to the stunning Palace of Knossos, where the king of the early Minoans lived. Set amid olive and cypress trees, the palace is a mazelike complex of rooms, courtyards, and stairways.

before you go: need-to-know info
Entry requirements: Passport
Language: Greek
Currency: Euro
Flight time (to Athens): 9 hrs from NYC, 15.5 hrs from LA, 13 hrs from Chicago, 15 hrs from Dallas
Hotel tax and service charge: 10%
Tipping: 8-10% if not included
Getting around: Bus, taxi, scooter, or car on the islands; plane or boat between islands
Greek holidays: Jan. 6, March 13, March 25, April 28, April 30, May 1, June 18, Aug. 15, Oct. 28
Inspiration: Watch James Bond's For Your Eyes Only
More info: Greek National Tourist Office, (212) 421-5777

The Cyclades
This group of islands sprinkled in the Aegean Sea orbit -- Cyclades means "circling islands" -- around Delos, once a sacred island and the spiritual heart of the region where no one was allowed to be born or die! (Its collection of archeological ruins is now a popular daytrip destination.) Ripe for island hopping with frequent ferry service between shorelines from May to September, this collection includes two of the most beloved Greek isles -- Mikonos and Santorini -- and many of the sights for which Greece is famous: whitewashed square houses and simple chapels set against a bold blue sky. Here are some of the highlights.

Mikonos (Mykonos)
Located in the northern reaches of the Cyclades, cosmopolitan Mikonos is known as hedonistic party central in July and August, but has much to offer year round. Besides the summer siren of beautiful beaches (go early and head north to avoid the crowds or strut your stuff at see-and-be-seen Paradise Beach) and scuba diving (one of the few Greek islands that permits it), off-season visitors will love the charming labyrinthine-like streets of the city of Hora and the largest nightlife scene on the islands. Start your evening in Mikonos Town watching the sun slip away at a mellow bar in Little Venice, then unleash your passion at one of many discos.


Santorini (Thira)
This is the cliff-rimmed crescent island that beckons you from travel-agency posters, and it doesn't disappoint. Santorini, one of the southernmost Greek islands, was formed by a huge volcanic eruption that tore the island in half. The caldera (cauldron), the flooded crater of the volcano, is a magnificent sight from the island's 1,000-foot heights. You can hike the six miles between the island's two principal towns, bustling Fira and lovely Ia, which sit atop these heights -- clinging precariously to the lip of the volcano -- and offer staggering views of the sunset. Don't miss the Pompeii-like ruins of Akrotiri or Thira and samples of the excellent local wine at Boutari Winery, all located on the southern half of the island.

Sifnos
This tiny island in the middle of the Cyclades is renowned for its ceramics and hidden treasures, including 365 churches and chapels. There's the charming medieval town of Kastro, built in the ruins of an ancient acropolis perched atop a rocky peak on the eastern shore. As is the case on many of the Cyclades, there are quite a few lovely hikes within this island's rolling interior, including one leading to a 12th-century monastery on the island's highest summit. A trio of amber-sand coves -- and other secluded sandy nooks accessible only by foot -- await you along the southern coast.

The Dodecanese
Hugging the Turkish coastline, this group boasts the tourist magnet island of Rhodes, beautiful beaches at Kos, historically notable Patmos, and the quiet getaway islands of Lipsi (near Patmos) and Simi (near Rhodes), where a once thriving ship-building and sponge-fishing industry left beautiful pastel-colored mansions and elaborate churches in its wake.

Patmos
On this rocky island -- which would be two if not for a slender isthmus -- it is believed that St. John the Divine wrote the Book of Revelation in the Cave of the Apocalypse more than 1,900 years ago. Don't miss the imposing medieval complex of the Monastery of St. John, high above the port of Skala -- the priceless treasures in the museum and the breathtaking view of the sea below make the climb worthwhile. Beaches along the northeastern coast are a big draw, but don't plan on baring all when you're there -- nude sunbathing is prohibited.

Rhodes (Rodos)
Rhodes is the largest island of the Dodecanese group. The capital, Rhodes City, is actually two cities in one: The mesmerizing old town is surrounded by dramatic medieval walls while the new town is a modern city of wide streets crammed with luxury hotels, restaurants, shops (where you can buy Rhodian specialties such as handmade carpets and kilims), and a concentration of nightspots second only to Mikonos. Head for the white-sand beaches along the sheltered east coast for 300 days a year of sunshine and primo sunbathing. Need a break? Take a trip down the coast to Lindos, a charming little town of pebbled streets located under the steep rise of its acropolis. Walk or ride donkeys up to see the ruins and enjoy one of the most dramatic views in all of Greece.

The Northeastern Aegean Islands
The major islands among this group north of the Dodecanese along the Turkish coast are Cypress tree-blanketed Samos and beach-blessed Hios (Chios). The attractions of Samos are on the north coast: Hike or bike the Platanakia region for its verdant valleys and quaint mountain villages; stay in the town of Karlovassi to windsurf and be relatively near the island's best sand-and-pebble beaches (finish your day with a glass of the excellent local wine). The southern coast of Hios offers ample clean and quiet white- and black-pebble sandy beaches and picturesque medieval villages such as Mesta and Piryi, famous for its signature geometric decoration.


The Ionian Islands
Located off Greece's northwest coast, the pleasant-weathered Ionian Islands offer a beautiful balance of lush scenery, lovely beaches, and a good selection of restaurants and hotels. Here are two of the highlights, one for action and one for inaction.

Corfu (Kerkira)
Like many islands, Corfu sates a variety of tastes with beach, city, and inland village daytrips. Corfu town offers both a cosmopolitan new town and Greece's largest old town, where you can spend many an hour immersing yourself in medieval architecture and people-watching at Liston, café central. After the sun sets, take in a sound-and-light show at the Old Fort (May to mid-September) or join revelers at one of many nightspots.

Kefalonia (Cephalonia)
An earthquake in 1953 leveled most of th relaxing and verdant island's buildings, but Fiskardo, a scenic coastal village, and natural wonders such as the Melissani Grotto and Drogarati Cave (the unusual stalagmites in the large chamber were once witnesses to a concert by Maria Callas) were spared. Be sure to taste the island's famous local honey and yummy red and white wines.

The Sporades
Along the northeast coast of Greece lie the little-known Sporades, or "Scattered Islands". Lacking historical sites, these islands appeal to beach lovers, shutterbugs, and those seeking relatively unspoiled Greek culture. Three deserve mention: Skiathos and Skopelos -- both blanketed with pine trees -- and rugged, remote Skyros.

Skiathos
The most visited and expensive of the Sporades due to its location closest to the mainland, Skiathos is the place to go for a beach -- the island has more than 60 golden beauties -- fine dining, and a bustling nightlife.

Skopelos
Shutterbugs will have a field day in Skopelos's picturesque port town bursting with churches, rugged cliffs, a grotto-spotted coastline, scenic hiking trails, and fruit and nut orchards - the plums and almonds are scrumptious.

Skyros (Skiros)
Skyros is difficult to get to and therefore less expensive and less affected by tourism. Come here for lots of local flavor, crystal-clear waters (great for diving), and spirited festivals - the island adds the pagan "Goat Dance" to Carnival festivities and honors St. George (patron of shepherds) with a big party on April 23.


When To Go: Greek Islands At Their Best
Best weather: May, June, September, and October. July and August can be uncomfortably hot (and unbearably crowded); the winter months are cold and damp -- it can even snow!
Best prices: Prices peak in July and August. Rates during "shoulder" seasons can be up to 50% less.
Festival highlights: Carnival is celebrated with parades and raucous revelry during the three weeks before Lent in February; Holy Week around Orthodox Easter is a special time in every town; wine festivals occur during June and July throughout the islands (Rethymnon [Rethimno] in Crete hosts the islands' most famous in July)


Europe: France - Paris | Intimate Cafes, Chic Shops & Eye-Candy Art


The "City of Light" is a sensory bombshell: world-renowned boutiques, cozy street-side cafes, aromatic bistros, grand avenues, jazz clubs, galleries, and museums collectively cast a spell in this city in northern France(pink prom dress). Enchanting and expensive, Paris feels simultaneously intimate and expansive. The city is divided into 20 districts, called arrondissements, and physically divided by the Seine River. The south part is called the Left Bank; the north part is called the Right Bank.

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In a Word: Nightlife
No matter your mood, Paris delivers. Cafe hop in the St-Germain district, gaze at the moonlit Seine, catch a few jazz sets, a play, or a cabaret. Addresses in the Menilmontant, Parmentier, and Bastille districts are hot.
Why We'd Go: Eight Features You'll Never Forget
Photo ops: Take pictures in front of the Eiffel Tower (come back at night when crowds thin out to see the city in all its glittering glory), the stately Arc de Triomphe (erected by Napoleon to celebrate his military prowess), the tourist-laden Champs-Elysees (prettiest at night), and the majestic Sacre-Coeur. Hop on one of the Bateaux Mouches, motorboats that tour Paris via the Seine, to overview city vistas.
Shopping: Top designer shops dot avenue Montaigne, rue du Faubourg-St-Honore, and Place des Victoires. Head towards Place Vendome for jewelry, the area around St-Germain-des-Pres for specialty boutiques, and Les Halles for trendy threads. Grands magasins (department stores) near the opera house include Galerie Lafayette and Au Printemps. Memorize these words: soldes ("sale" -- January and August are the best months), tout doit disparaitre ("everything must go"), and coin des affaires ("bargain area").
Works of art: Must-see museums include the Louvre (once a fortress, now a museum powerhouse), the Orsay Museum (which includes an excellent Impressionist collection, Art Nouveau furniture, and a Belle Epoque restaurant), the whimsical Pompidou Center (home to the Modern Art Museum), the Picasso Museum, and the Rodin Museum. Gain entree to 70 museums and sites -- and go to the front of the line! -- with a Carte Musees et Monument (museum pass) available at museums, the tourist office, and major Metro stations.
Jim Morrison: Wander among the imposing tombs and cobblestone avenues of Pere Lachaise Cemetery to find the graves of Chopin, Proust, Delacroix, Rossini, Moliere, Oscar Wilde, Isadora Duncan, Edith Piaf, Gertrude Stein, and yes, Jim himself.
Happenin' 'hoods: Marais and St-Germain are unspoiled Paris -- for now. The Latin Quarter, like Greenwich Village in New York City, has lost its unique edge but is worth a quick visit to see the Sorbonne, one of Europe's oldest universities, and the Pantheon, where the remains of Voltaire, Rousseau, and Zola reside. Montmartre is the original Bohemian hangout and includes Paris' red light district. Here you'll find Moulin Rouge with its legendary can-can shows and the sex shops of boulevard de Clichy at Place Blanche.

Island life: Visit the island of Ile de la Cite in the Seine to see Notre-Dame (go first thing in the morning to avoid crowds, and climb the tower steps to gawk at gargoyles and Paris vistas), the richly lit Holy Chapel with its walls of 13th-century stained glass, and Conciergerie, the city's former prison.
Gardens: On the Left Bank, picnic on Nutella crepes at the beautiful Luxembourg Garden or Botanical Gardens. Built in the 17th century, these gardens encompass a zoo, aquarium, maze, alpine garden, hothouses, and several natural history museums.

Day trips: Hop a train to visit the opulent 17th-century Chateau de Versailles; the Palace at Fontainebleau and its famed forest; or the Chartres Cathedral, designed by Rodin and flooded with color from 3,000 square yards of 12th- and 13th-century stained glass.
Pucker Up: Best Place to Smooch
Whether you're picnicking with a bottle of Bordeaux, a hunk of hot baguette, and creamy Brie, or you're curled up in the burgundy-velvet booths of a romantic restuarant on the Left Bank, French food will lead to locked lips in this city of sensory delights.

When to Go: Paris at its Best
Best weather: May, June, September, October
Best prices: November to February
Festival highlights: Browse antique dealers' prize pieces along the Left Bank perimeter known as the Carre Rive Gauche during the last weekend in May; attend the international La Villette Jazz Festival in early summer; celebrate Bastille Day in grand millennium style on July 14; stroll neighborhood festivals from July 15 to August 15; revel in Paris' autumn festival

French holidays: Jan. 1, Easter, May 1, May 8, June 1, June 12, July 14, Aug. 15, Nov. 1, Nov. 11 Dec. 25
Before You Go: Need-to-Know Info
Entry requirements: Passport
Language: French
Currency: Euro
Flight time: 7 hrs from NYC, 13 hrs from LA, 12 hrs from Dallas
Hotel tax and service charge: 20.6% (tax), service charge varies (both are usually included in rates)
Tipping: Included in restaurant bills (but leave a little extra), 10% to taxi drivers, 10 francs per day for maids
Getting around: Metro (subway), bus, taxi, taxi-bike (rickshaws)
Inspiration: Read A Moveable Feast by Ernest Hemingway
More info: France On-Call

Monday, June 18, 2012

Honeymoon Planning: Follow the Stars to Your Ideal Getaway



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Ever wondered why certain locales seem to be whispering your name? The answer may be in the stars. Check your sign (and your sweetie's) to see what types of trips will fan your desire. Star-crossed lovers should seek a destination with both elements -- or split your trip -- to satisfy each person's primal yearnings.

Earth Signs (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn)
As Mother Nature's little nymphs, earth signs want to be outside and active. Water sports, skiing, kayaking, and horseback riding are right up their alley. Think beautiful scenery, simple -- yet clean -- accommodations, and hearty food. Taureans are known as the Epicures of the Zodiac, after all.

Air Signs (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius)
Inquisitive and open-minded, these visionaries are looking for a destination that will stir their imaginations. Busy, colorful city streets, exotic foods, and exquisite details will keep them riveted. Consider journeying to a faraway location such as Morocco, Turkey, or India; a city with lots of day-trip options is also a good bet.

Fire Signs (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius)
These speed-demon fire signs want it all and they want it fast! Life is a pursuit of passion for these ardent just-do-it types. Big open spaces and big ideas such as majestic nature and sweeping historical sights, or thrill-seeking vacations like white-water rafting, downhill skiing, and motorcycle touring, will satisfy their needs.


Water Signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces)
Perhaps it is the ocean's murky depths that steer people born under these emotional signs to feel happiest by the water and inspired by mystery -- the haunted cemeteries of New Orleans or the dark tombs of Egypt, for example. One requirement: Only five-star accommodations will placate this sensitive soul.

Honeymoon Planning: Finding Your Perfect Destination



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Too often for couples, honeymoons(prom gowns outlet) are an afterthought to wedding planning. Renee Duane of Unforgettable Honeymoons says approaching your getaway in this manner is a mistake. "A honeymoon is an investment in memories for the rest of your life," she says. "Don't take chances with it." Instead, she recommends starting with a conversation. "Sit down and talk about the level of luxury and privacy you want, what you want to do every day, and the type of nightlife you desire," says Duane. But don't despair if you reach an impasse. We've put together several profiles to help you find the perfect escape to fit your personalities.

Tan Fans
Those partial to surf and turf need to get on the same wavelength when choosing where to share a beach blanket. Social creatures who thrive on team sports might prefer the communal atmosphere of an all-inclusive beach resort. There you can mingle with other newlyweds over a sand-castle building contest, get competitive with a game of beach volleyball, or forge new friendships while swimming with dolphins. Those who prefer their own place in the sun should head to an island retreat with private white-sand beaches: You can unwind to the soft sound of lapping waves, arrange a romantic picnic on a remote beach, or get certified in scuba diving and explore tropical coral reefs with your sweetie.

Survivors, Honeymoon Style
If khaki is the predominant color in your wardrobe, if you considered forgoing the veil for a pith helmet at your wedding, or if the words "Me, Tarzan, you, Jane" sound like sweet nothings to your ears, a honeymoon on the wild side might be in order. If the rumble of the jungle makes you roar, choose an eco-adventure in the wilds of a rain forest to bring out the animal in you. Canoe down the Amazon and spot toucans, lemurs, and spider monkeys in the trees. Get down and dirty on an archaeological dig in Egypt (don't forget to explore the pyramids and the Sphinx). Or search out wildebeest on a Serengeti safari, and share a kiss overlooking Africa’s Victoria Falls.

Fast-Lane Fanatics
If you must start the day with your favorite coffee and The Wall Street Journal; if you live on the cutting edge and don't want to miss a beat; or if you thirst for the knowledge found within museums, enjoy live theater, and prefer dining at five-star restaurants, a honeymoon in a city should fit the bill. Cities teeming with culture can be found in the U.S. and abroad. Bone up on a city's history by staying in accommodations such as a castle or a popular spot on the National Register of Historic Places. Savor the city's architecture and landscape, discover local artists, check out the latest fashion trends with some upscale shopping, scout out intimate boutiques, and linger over a renowned chef’s cuisine accompanied by wine from a nearby vineyard. Nightlife in a bustling metropolis is also not to be missed. Whether you prefer a techno-funk club or a trip to the opera, the city awaits you.


Fit to Be Pampered
If pleasurable pursuits are close to your heart, and you think a pedicure followed by a paraffin wax should be a national mandate; if you’re health conscious and like working out the kinks with a Reebok Core Training class followed by a Shirodhara massage; or if you'd like to work off those last lingering five pounds before returning to civilization, a spa honeymoon should be on your menu. Begin your days hiking through local mountains and getting focused in a yoga class. Wind down by being pummeled into putty and dining on fresh organic cuisine. Starting a new health regime as you embark on your life together is a recommended prescription for even the most incurable romantics.

Day Trippers
Admirers of Lewis and Clark don't need a map to find a good time. If you like diversity in your day and immersing yourselves in new territories, explore this country or another by road or by rail. A honeymoon by train can give you romance aplenty in a luxurious suite with a moving view. Stops are often scheduled along the way, and you can linger and explore, then catch a later train. If delving into local stories of small towns and greasy spoons appeals to you, take your time as you traverse through destinations such as the Louisiana bayous, Grand Canyon, Redwood Forest, or Alaskan tundra. Pitch a tent or bunk at a bed-and-breakfast; accommodations are secondary to savoring local flavor. When it comes to honeymooning on the road, love knows no direction.

Shipboard Romantics
If crashing waves, the wind in your hair, and salt in the air appeal to your free spirits, setting sail on a cruise ship and exploring new worlds might be your ticket to paradise. Cruise ships are no longer just floating buffets with some gambling and Vegas-style entertainment thrown in. Of course, there’s plenty of time to lounge on the lido deck and sip pina coladas, but it's hard not to be enticed by what cruises have to offer. These mobile luxury hotel-and-spas can transport you to such exotic locations as Sri Lanka, the Galapagos, or Antarctica. As with ports of call, onboard activities are boundless. Partake in workouts from yoga to tai chi. The more adventurous can challenge rock-climbing walls, parasail, or kayak. If your inner swashbuckler still isn’t satisfied, consider stowing your gear on a clipper ship that allows guests to take on crew duties.

Love Nesters
A mere "Do Not Disturb" sign just doesn't cut it, and getting snowbound in a mountain cabin with no phone, fax machine, or television sounds like bliss. For you, finding tranquility means privacy -- particularly since you feel the need to get reacquainted after the chaos of planning a wedding. Escape the madding crowds and spend some one-on-one time in romantic seclusion. Whether it's a trip to the Poconos, an escape to your parents' beach house, or a stack of videos with popcorn and champagne in your own home, your favorite kind of getaway is laid-back and low-key. After all, as they say, home is where the heart is.

Sunday, June 17, 2012

Bridal Shower Gifts: 22 Saucy Ideas



Looking for a shower gift that the bride (and her man) will really go wild for? Think sexy thoughts! Here are ideas that are sure to heat up their nights.
1. A Little Lingerie
Tiny silk nighties, lace-up corsets, satin garters -- every girl needs a little something sexy to slip on.

2. Plush Prints
There's something about animal skin that makes folks want to growl and roar. Consider leopard-print panties or zebra-print pillowcases.

3. Shower for Two
No more taking turns -- let the lovebirds shower together with a chrome-plated double shower head.

4. Robes to Unrobe
Nothing's more comfy than wrapping your birthday suit in a luxurious velour robe after a hot, steamy...shower.


5. Sensual Scents
A basket of bubble bath, soaps, shampoos, conditioners, lotions, and home fragrance seduces the senses. Jasmine, vanilla, cinnamon, sandalwood, and lavender are the some of the sexiest scents.

6. The Dance of Desire
Buy her belly dancing lessons at a local dance studio or fitness center. Want to get them moving together? Consider buying them tango lessons for two or a season pass for yoga classes.


7. Pamper and Prep
Treat the lover girl to smooth, sensual skin with a pre-wedding spa treatment complete with body wrap, skin scrub, and bikini wax. For fun at home, give Bloom's Aromatherapy Pamper Pack or the Jaqua Girls Japanese Bath Kit for the ultimate shared sensory experience.

8. Irresistible Elixir
Chartreuse, a green after-dinner liqueur, is rumored to have aphrodisiacal properties. Or give a book of cocktail recipes so they can stir up a Sex on the Beach and other steamy libations. Complete the effect with a sophisticated martini set.

9. Wet 'n' Wild
The sound of the ocean is always a turn on. Give them a sound machine that churns out rythmic waves or cool tropical rain soundscapes. For a more meditative gift, consider a small Japanese fountain.

10. Make-Out Music
Get personal and burn a CD with sexy songs (starting off with "Let's Get It On") and favorite bedtime tunes. The Verve Story 1944-1994 2-CD Boxed Set, will get them in the mood for love.

11. Sex Kitten Kit
Give her the ultraglam gift: a vixen make-up kit -- cigarette case with holder, fake eyelashes, fire-engine red lipstick, red nail polish, and a brown pencil for drawing a beauty mark, all in a foxy make-up case. Toss in body shimmer to make her sparkle.


12. Treats They Can Eat
Sex and food go hand in hand. Consider giving edible body paints, erotic fortune cookies, or edible underwear. Or just head to the grocery store and pick up chocolate syrup, honey, or whipped cream.

13. Love Is in the Air
Incense, scented candles, and perfume. Tests have shown that the aromas of cucumber and black licorice (for her) and pumpkin pie (for him) are the top aphrodisiac scents. (It sounds random, but that's what the experts say!)

14. Strike a Pose
Present her with a video camcorder or a camera for high-tech hanky panky. Or give her a certificate for a photo session with a local wedding photographer or a specialized photographer who sets up and shoots boudoir portraits.

15. Light the Love Flame
Set the mood with curvaceous candlesticks and ruby red candles.

16. A Room With a View
Spring for a one-night stay at a nearby hotel and let the newlyweds be tourists in their own town. Or act out the final "window" scene from the movie.

17. Decadent Dining
How about a dinner-for-two gift certificate at a romantic restaurant? (Hint: sushi is supersoft, sensual, and slippery).

18. Fresh-Air Frolick
A picnic basket with a really big blanket serves hours of outdoor fun.

19. Wanton Words
Make your literary gift a lascivious read. Some of our favorites: Intercourses: An Aphrodisiac Cookbook, Hot Sex: How to Do It, and The New Joy of Sex.

20. A Passionate Performance
Tickets to the local ballet, opera, or cabaret. La Bohème is known to bring operagoers to tears, and Carmen features lots of slinky, sultry scenes.


21. Deep Rub
Help the couple relax with a massage for two at a spa. Or treat them to an assortment of scented massage creams and oils, so that they won't have to leave their bedroom. To guide the lovers, think about giving a The Art of Sensual Massage and wooden massage accessories.

22. Rev Up Their Room
Give them the props to turn their bedroom into a bordello. Silk or satin sheets and piles of velvet pillows ought to do the redecorating trick.

Bridal Shower Games: The Newlywed Game



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The Idea: How well does the groom know the bride?


What You Need: 
A list of questions
Time with the groom
Tape recorder (optional)
Video camera/TV/DVD player (optional)
How to Play: Before the bridal shower, ask the groom 20 questions (or so) about the bride and their relationship: Where was your first kiss? What’s his most annoying habit? Which of these are you most likely to fight about: messiness, social plans, or wedding(transparent wedding dress) stress? At the bridal shower, ask the bride the same questions and see how many answers they have in common. 

If you’re tech-savvy, film the groom answering the questions (or use a tape recorder); and play back his answers for everyone to see and hear (allow for a pause between questions). But remember your audience -- don’t ask questions about the first time they spent the night together if grandma is going to be there.
Bonus Round: How well do the guests know the bride? Have the groom -- whether on video, tape recorder, or listed on a sheet of paper -- ask the guests questions about the bride. “What does she say before she goes to bed?” “What is her favorite ice cream flavor?” “What is the name of her alter ego?” See who gets the most right.

Saturday, June 16, 2012

Budgeting for the Wedding: Who Pays for What?



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Forget the archaic rule that says certain people have to pay for certain things. The bride's parents need not take out a third mortgage to pay for the wedding, and the groom's parents are not off the hook either. Besides, the two of you might even be covering a good chunk of the expenses yourselves. The best way to work it out? Sit down with pencil, paper, and calculator and figure out what you really want and can afford. Keep in mind that informal weddings are usually smaller (and therefore cheaper), and formal weddings tend to be larger (and therefore more expensive).
Here's a list of the traditional costs for everyone involved -- but remember, these "rules" are made to be broken!

Ceremony
Bride and family pay for church or synagogue, sexton, organist, etc.
Groom and family pay for marriage license and officiant's fee.

Clothes
Bride and family pay for bride's dress, veil, accessories, and trousseau (read: lingerie and honeymoon clothes).
Groom and family pay for groom's outfit.
All attendants pay for their own clothing (including shoes).

Flowers
Bride and family pay for arrangements for church (including Chuppah if a Jewish wedding ceremony) and reception, plus bouquets and corsages for bridesmaids and flower girls.
Groom and family pay for bride's bouquet and going-away corsage, boutonnieres for men, and corsages for mothers and grandmothers.

Honeymoon
Groom and family pay for complete honeymoon.

Photography
Bride and family pay for all wedding photos and video.

Prewedding Parties
Bride or groom's family plans and hosts engagement party; if there is more than one, bride's family hosts the first one.
Groom's family plans and hosts the rehearsal dinner.
Bride plans and hosts bridesmaids' luncheon.
Groom hosts and plans bachelors' dinner.
Maid of honor and bridesmaids host shower.
Best man and ushers host bachelor party.
Friends may throw additional engagement parties or showers.

Reception
Bride and family pay for all professional services, including food, drink, decorations, and music.

Rings
Bride and/or her family pay for groom's ring.
Groom and/or his family pay for both of the bride's rings.

Stationery
Bride and family pay for invitations, announcements, and wedding programs.

Transportation
Bride and family pay for wedding transportation of bridal party to and from ceremony and reception.


Engagement To-Dos: Introducing the In-Laws



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Now that you've committed to Mr. Right, it's time for your folks to mix and mingle: Yes, for better or worse, it's time to introduce your parents to each other.
Etiquette Says
Traditionally, the groom's parents call the bride's parents first to introduce themselves and to make plans to meet. (It's also completely acceptable for the bride's parents -- or you two! -- to make the first move.) If either or both of your parents are divorced, the parent(s) that raised each of you should meet first. If your parents live far apart, one set should send a note of introduction to convey their excitement at the impending joining of your two families.

Choosing a Location
If your parents live in the same hometown, you can all meet for brunch, cocktails, or dinner at someone's house or at a moderately priced, fun restaurant. However, the best way to encourage conversation is for parents to meet during an interactive meal (a backyard barbecue or clambake, say) or activity such as canoeing, bowling, or attending a sports event together. This will supply something to talk about and distract them from any differences they may have.
If your parents live in different parts of the state or across the country (or world), make an effort to find a convenient time and place for everyone to meet before the wedding. If it's absolutely not possible, be sure that everyone convenes a few days before the wedding to get acquainted. One good way to kick-start relations is to assign them last-minute wedding duties (favors, decorations) to tackle together.


Pre-Meet Prep
Accept the fact that you can't control what happens after the introductions. Instead, take steps now to brief the primary players, make a good impression, and defuse any landmines that may lie ahead.

Forewarn but Don't Flip Out
Everyone has issues or experiences you know to steer clear of. From small annoyances (one parent hates cigarette smoke, for example) to major issues (his grandparents are Holocaust survivors), now is the time to share do-not-go-there subjects with your parents.
In addition, all parents -- and couples -- have their eccentricities. If you foresee clashing quirks, forewarn those likely to be most sensitive. Be careful not to exaggerate the situation, as that will bias those involved and give them ammunition if they're not crazy about your fiance or the idea of your getting married (so fast, so young, so whatever). Couch the concern, then let them make up their own minds.

Have Conversation Topics at the Ready
To bridge awkward silences, stockpile interesting conversational topics for emergency saves. What do they have in common? What's in the news? Read the paper for current events (beware political or controversial topics) and make a mental list of your parents' hobbies, recent trips, or community activities. Think of things that reveal more about their personalities than their paychecks (so as not to alienate parents of lesser means).

Set the Ground Rules Before You Go
If you're meeting at a restaurant, be sure everyone understands that each couple will cover their own share (not split it three ways or down the middle). In fact, call ahead to choose a restaurant that will do separate checks. Or, bite the bullet and pick up the tab for everyone. Doing so will eliminate awkward efforts to treat each other and bitterness when someone orders the most expensive thing on the menu or downs six martinis.

Kowtow to Miss Manners
Common courtesy mandates that when someone invites you over for dinner, you bring a gift or contribute to the menu. When parents are meeting parents, pour on the politeness. Bring a gift, food, or a special sweet treat. Offer to help finish last-minute prep and to help clean up or clear the dishes. Eat light so you can go for second helpings and ask for the recipe of something they served (even if you never plan on making it).

Know Your Cultures
If you're marrying someone from another culture, religion, or race, ask your fiance if there are any beliefs or protocol you should know about and/or heed before this pivotal first meeting of the minds.

Thursday, June 14, 2012

Bachelor Parties: 10 Surefire Ideas



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There's nothing tough about planning a good bachelor party. It just takes a little organization (draw up a guest list, schedule a night), a bit of luck (hope everyone can make it, stay out of jail), and one really excellent idea. Here are 10 that can't miss.

Show Him the Money
Vegas:  If you can swing it, nothing beats a quick trip to Sin City: neon lights, slot machines, all the prime rib and shrimp cocktails you can inhale. The best bet for a successful Las Vegas soiree is to move in and out like the wind. Book a late-night flight (flights to Vegas from anywhere are usually cheap) and a large suite at a semi-decent hotel. Carouse through the night, crash in the morning, and then rise for a fancy dinner and quick round of 21 -- one late-night flight back home later, you've got memories guaranteed to last.
Atlantic City:  Same concept as the Las Vegas expedition, but more convenient for East Coast types.

Eat Meat
Take a trip to the most decadent steakhouse in town, and eat like kings. Order a bottle (or ten) of the best red wine in the house.

Buy the Boat
Or just rent it for a night. Look into chartering a yacht for an evening for the groom and his guys. Bring a few bottles of first-rate champagne and celebrate on style in the high seas.

Studs
If the groom and groomsmen can't swing the trip to Vegas, bring Sin City to them: Host a poker night extraordinaire. Stock the bar, order gourmet pizza, and pitch in the kitty for the groom.

Beach Bums
Water, sand, beach volleyball, and a little harmless bikini watching. Need we say more? Top it off with bonfire and brews, and you’re set for some California dreamin’.


Puff Daddy
Take Mr. Last-Night-of-Being-a-Bachelor out for some primo cigars. Head toward your favorite cigar bar and puff away, while quaffing single-malt Scotch.

Swingers
Sometimes, nothing beats a classic. We're talking golf here. Eighteen holes of sun, fun, and an extra cart for the keg of beer. If you can rally the troops, go for a three-round weekend retreat. We suggest Palm Springs, California, home of PGA West, Desert Dunes, and Bob Hope. Swing by morning, swim by afternoon, barbecue by night.

You're Tripping
Road tripping, we mean. Grabbing a few good buddies and setting off for destinations unknown is a huge part of the appeal of a road trip. Drive as far as one tank of gas will get you. In the immortal words of Jonathan Richman: “I got my jeans and things and I am ready to go.”

The Ponies
Ascot it isn't, but horse racing can be a load of fun. Just imagine: a pack of two-year-olds thundering down the track, the roar of the crowd, and the lure of the daily double. Buy a racing form, order a mint julep, and ask the advice of some of the old-timers hanging around the track.

Rave On
Ever dream of hosting a wild, all-night party at an exclusive dance club? Get in touch with the management of the hottest nightclub in town and ask about renting one of their VIP rooms for the evening. This could get expensive, especially if you have an open bar, so make sure all the party-goers are prepared to open their wallets (and maybe even their 401(k) accounts)!